Friday, May 21, 2010

Living The Life of Your Dreams?

Do you feel like your life is exactly where you want it to be at this very moment? If you answered NO, you are not alone. Most of us are not living a life beyond our wildest dreams. Not because we don't want to, but most of us have followed the guidance of those who weren't living a life beyond their wildest dreams. How can you get what you desire if your being taught how to be mediocre? This is why I choose to surround myself with mentors who have had great success, and people who only see the glass half full vs. half empty.

It's interesting to me how most of us spend more time planning for our family vacation then we do planning to achieve our goals. As a matter of fact, a latest statistic shows that only 3% of the public at large actually set their goals. It's no wonder that only 1% of the general public are wealthy?

So how can you get yourself to where you want to be - Starting Immediately? Here are a few tips to get you on the path to start living a life beyond your wildest dreams.

* Quit blaming others for wherever you are at TODAY - Take all responsibility
* Don't live in the past and dwell on it (Only reflect to repeat success or for what you learned)
* Write down your goals (30 days, 90 days, 6 months, 1 year, 3 years, 5 years, and 10 years)
* Never let someone else's goals and dreams define yours ( I know many who are quite happy in
their careers, being a stay at home mom, pastor, realtor, network marketer, etc...) You own your
own dreams, they only belong to you.
* Understand that you really only have complete control over your thoughts, images, and
behaviors. (try to recognize things that you don't control and accept that)
* Attitude is everything. (Remember, life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it)

Hope these tips have helped you gain more insight to where you are going and what you are doing to get there. Your letting go of the past, accepting full responsibility, writing down goals, accepting the things you cannot change, and keeping positive thoughts, images, and behaviors will be pivotal to whatever success you are looking for and living that life beyond your wildest dreams.

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